Aug
In Which I Reveal That my Historical Inspiration is About to Invade Lady B’s Parlour
In the little over a month that Lady B has so graciously opened her ballroom to us, the dear lady has shown remarkable forbearance. Between shameless (and nameless) flirts, incorrigible warriors, a near naked woman taking advantage of a near naked man, and even a veiled threat on Albert’s life, she’s shown her incredible sense of humor and breeding.
I simply hope that after today and Monday, she doesn’t decide that having a gaggle of authors (do authors come in gaggles?) is far too much trouble. You see, I’ve invited mistresses to her parlour.
It’s a bit of a surprise. Mistresses and courtesans have always held a particular fascination for me and after Lady B read about the fictional house of ill repute that I created, she wanted to know how I had any knowledge of the matter. I explained that I’d researched the subject quite extensively. Really, it’s very dense reading. So I’ve invited a few of the more intriguing mistresses from history that represent the wide variety of mistresses and courtesans.
Presenting, my guests for Monday:
The Celebrated Mistress:
A lady has not truly arrived until she has been immortalized by an artist whether in paint, marble or print. Sir Joshua Reynolds found Kitty Fisher a perfect subject for their art, but one woman’s charm, beauty and air of tragedy inspired not only visual art, but also a book, an opera, and several movies: Marie Duplessis. ![]()
The Political Mistress:
In France, the role of Mistress to the King was so accepted that there was even a position. Several brilliant ladies held the place of Chief Mistress over the centuries, influencing their respective monarchs and gaining enemies along the way. But one of these women was known for her scheming as well, for her willingness to go to any lengths to get her way: Françoise Athénaïs de Rochechouart de Mortemart, marquise of Montespan, mistress to King Louis XIV of France.

The Literary Mistress:
These women were the epitome of the phrase “write what you know.” And while such famous courtesans as Harriette Wilson and Cora Pearl traded on their conquests by publishing their memoirs, one mistress wrote a roman á clef of her affair out of revenge. Falling slightly more into the lover than mistress camp, nonetheless Marie d’Agoult had been mistress to that rock star of the 19th century, Franz Liszt, for four years before he left her for another. She penned Nelida several years later.

The Virtuous Mistress:
There is no one path from girlhood to mistress, but for some women that path is particularly arduous. Especially when the urgings of her peers run counter to the teachings of her faith. Marie Walewska caught the eye of the Napoleon Buonaparte and though she at first resisted, realized that perhaps in the privacy of the bedchamber she could influence him to spare her much abused homeland. In that respect she verges on being a political mistress as she lay back and thought of Poland.

Then, there is the––
Oh no! I have been informed that my fifth guest will unfortunately be detained. Perhaps one of our lovely visitors would be kind enough as to suggest a suitable replacement?











Aug 20, 2011
6:46 am
Great post Sabrina! What an intriguing topic-your research is fascinating and I definitely learned something today, so thank you!
One of my favorite courtesans/mistresses from history is Veronica Franco, a celebrated courtesan and writer from 16th century Venice. She rose to such power and prominence that she ended up facing charges from the Inquisition. Dangerous Beauty is a film based on her life, and it’s one of my favorites. I admired her for being ahead of her time, making the most of her situation, and using her brains and wits, in addition to her physical beauty, to achieve all she did.
One of my favorite romances featuring a courtesan is Tiffany Clare’s Surrender of a Lady. She did a wonderful job in showing Elena’s journey from a woman trapped in a loveless marriage to a scoundrel to Jinan, a woman who fully embraces her sensuality.
As for the fifth guest, maybe The Accidental Mistress? Not quite sure how that would work, but it does have a ring to it? lol.
Aug 20, 2011
1:58 pm
I agree, Lisa, that Veronica Franco is a fascinating woman. She was definitely on the short list for women to invite.
The Accidental Mistress… very intriguing!
Aug 20, 2011
7:25 am
What a fascinating post! Thanks for this. I really enjoyed it.
Aug 20, 2011
1:59 pm
Thank you for visiting this morning. I find the topic of mistresses always brightens an overcast Saturday. (At least it’s overcast here in my part of the world!)
Aug 20, 2011
9:10 am
You are so right that being a mistress could be about so much more than bed. Thinking of Louis XIV and his cousin Charles II of England, both paid much more attention to their mistresses than to their poor unfortunate wives, who were rather dim bulbs. Several English dukedoms were created for Charles’s sons by his mistresses – and so tragic for Queen Catherine that she never had a child.
For one of history’s most spectacular examples of the political mistress, I nominate Diane de Poitiers, mistress of Henry II of France. She really was queen of his court. On the other hand, the real queen, Catherine de Medici, was no dim bulb and ruled Frances through her sons for decades after Henry’s death. Here’s Diane (she made quite a habit of being painted topless).
http://madameguillotine.files.wordpress.com/2011/03/diane-de-poitiers.jpg?w=437&h=599
Aug 20, 2011
2:02 pm
You are not alone, Miranda. There was a point where being a mistress (although not so much to a royal) seemed like a romantic career choice.
And I love that painting. A brave and confident woman is the one who demands to be painted topless!
And it always amazes me how many mistresses the French kings had.
Aug 20, 2011
9:57 am
Lovely to see you all again! *smiles and waves*
I began to believe some years ago it was MY lot in life to be forever the Mistress. It can be fascinating, but it’s also a very tiring job. The best part is, when he’s acting like a horse’s ass, you can send him home and YOU don’t have to deal with him. I don’t encourage Mistresses but they can save a marriage or relationship at times. *wink*
Aug 20, 2011
2:19 pm
Miss Adkins, I am quite intrigued by your comments. While I do indeed know many ladies who encourage their husbands’ paramours (and seek their own), my dearest Lord B. would never consider such a thing, nor would I wish him to.
I am certain you must attend this discreet little parlor event, Miss Darby has planned for Monday!
Aug 20, 2011
2:26 pm
I certainly try to attend Lady B. Thank you!
Aug 20, 2011
10:40 am
Fascinating post, Sabrina!
“In that respect she verges on being a political mistress as she lay back and thought of Poland.” — LOL, but poignant too. So intriguing about mistresses that they shunned convention while in fact being quite conventional, when it came right down to it!
The medieval era offers a panoply of troubled mistresses including one lord’s some-time lady, Margaret. Cast off by her lover, she ended her life mad as a hatter but as an anchoress visited by desperate sinners seeking spiritual counseling.
Aug 20, 2011
2:06 pm
Oooh madness. You’ve just touched on another of my fascinations, Katharine!
Perhaps, The Mad Mistress?
Aug 20, 2011
10:41 am
I loved “Dangerous Beauty” too! I would love to see Veronica Franco in the ballroom. (and Rufus Sewell!!!)
Aug 20, 2011
2:08 pm
I always think of Rufus Sewell in Cold Comfort Farm.
Providing a link to his image for Lady B’s benefit.
http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0001722/
Aug 20, 2011
2:22 pm
Was there not a more informative image that you could provide, Miss Darby? Where are his legs?
Aug 20, 2011
11:09 am
What an interesting post, Sabrina!
Mistresses are fascinating. One on hand, they enjoyed such extraordinary liberation compared to their female contemporaries, and on the other hand… well, that freedom came at a very specific price.
Speaking of mistresses in movies, I spent some time looking up Nell Gwyn after watching the movie Stage Beauty. She was mistress of Charles II–an illiterate commoner who began as an actress. It seems she was quite a personality.
Aug 20, 2011
11:33 am
This is an interesting and educational post. I have no clue who to recommend for your fifth. My interactions with mistresses is very limited having only dealt with the one my ex-husband had.
Aug 20, 2011
12:00 pm
Wonderful post! Kudos! I can tell you that I had a great time researching famous Regency London courtesan Harriett Wilson and her sisters and bff Julia (…drawing a blank on her last name) whiel writing The Duke. They got away with everything…lol. Well, except they were still outcasts with Society.
I’m glad you mentioned Harriett’s book, Sabrina! I thought it was oh-so-modern that she sought to make money when she grew older and lost her looks by penning a tell-all book. Most of her Society lovers paid NOT to be mentioned. Except for Wellington, who said Publish and be damned.
If anyone wants to read the book that resulted, it’s called The Lady and the Game.
Hope you all are having a nice weekend!

Gaelen
Aug 20, 2011
1:22 pm
Saabrina -
What a delight to have you here at the ballroom. It was so kind of Mrs. B to invite you and I do hope to meet some of these courtesan’s on Monday. Lord. Hastings won’t talk to me about such an un-delicate subject and I just must learn more!
Perhaps you could set up a separate parlor so we could get some “tips” from these lovely ladies when they visit. Well, Mrs. B, I thought it would be a most interesting idea to get some tips afterall. What? You may be to old that “that sort of thing but I think of myself as being mature!
Yes, Sabrina, please think about this over the week-end and I’m looking forward to seeing you again on Monday.
Lady Hastinsgs
Aug 20, 2011
11:01 pm
Aug 20, 2011
11:05 pm
Yes, Miss Darby. If you are going to bring such scandalous women into my home, I demand their conversation be amusing and informative.
*squawk* and delicious! *squawk*
Delicious? Yes, I suppose that might be in order, Albert.
Aug 20, 2011
4:23 pm
I have always enjoyed reading about mistresses whether as the determined protagonist or the obstacle to a newly married heroine.
I can’t wait to read more about your gathering on Monday!
Aug 20, 2011
11:03 pm
I’m particularly interested right now in Mistress as obstacle. Although… with the mistress as the heroine