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At-Home Week Begins with Regency Star, Alexandra Hawkins
Dear Friends, a marvelous Monday to you all! Lady B. is so pleased to be holding our first At-Home Week here at the Ballroom Blog. The creme de la creme of Regency Society will be gracing us with their presence this week, and it is my great honor to present to you all my dear friend, the tres magnifique Alexandra Hawkins!
Alexandra Hawkins is renowned for the red-hot rakehells in her USA Today bestselling Lord of Vice series (St. Martin’s Press). Trust me, she has a particular genius for the care and handling of bad boys. For those who haven’t read them yet, the four titles in this series so far hint at the intensity and sensuality to be found inside the gorgeous covers: All Night with a Rogue, Till Dawn with the Devil, After Dark with a Scoundrel, and the latest installment, her brand-new January 2012 release, Sunrise With a Notorious Lord. Take a peek!
Back cover blurb:Dashing, decadent, and deliciously seductive, the notorious Lords of Vice indulge their every desire—from dusk until dawn…
Christopher Courtland, Earl of Vanewright—known around London as “Vane”—is the very picture of a rich, handsome ladies’ man. Why shackle himself to just one lady when he’s free to sample them all? In spite of his own mother’s attempts at matchmaking, Vane has sworn to stay single. Until he has a chance run-in with Miss Isabel Thorne…
A modest and refined beauty, Isabel is a lot more brazen than she appears. When a pickpocket tries to make away with Vane’s bejeweled snuffbox, Isabel attempts to thwart his escape…and manages to steal Vane’s heart. But the harder he tries to seduce the sharp-tongued, strong-willed Isabel, the more she resists. Now it’s up to this tried-and-true bachelor to find a new way to play the game…or risk losing the one woman who’s ever captured his heart.
Gaelen: Alexandra, thank you so much for coming to be with us for our first At Home week! Congrats on the grand success of your new book. I see the Lords of Vice are once more heating up the USA Today list! Congrats!
So, one of the things that grabbed me right away when I read the blurb on the new one–aside from your latest sexy bad boy hero–was when I noted that this story has one of those types of characters we so love in Regency novels – the classic matchmaking Mama.
Indeed, I see you were very fortunate to be accompanied (chaperoned?) to the Ballroom today by Lady Netherley herself, Vane’s mother. Lady B, I believe you and Lady Netherley have been acquainted for years, is that correct?
Lady B: We have. Lady Netherley has always had a knack for determining who among Society’s young people would make a suitable match.
Lady Netherley: My dear Heliotrope, you are too kind. (sniffs into her handkerchief) I knew the moment I met Isabel that she was the perfect lady for my son. But it was a herculean task, since he had the foolish notion of attempting to remain single.
Gaelen: What a trial that must have been for you, Lady Netherley. Do tell us about it! But wait, your son is here, is he not? WOW, is that Lord Vainwright? I daresay. Hubba, hubba.
Lady B: (Awfully nice calves on this young fellow, what?) Lord Vanewright, my dear young man, you are new to our company. Do come overe here, and bring your young lady with you (if you can manage her! – spirited gel, I hear). Tell us a little more about yourselves. If you’re not too reticent as so many gentlemen are in speaking in matters of the heart, perhaps you would tell us where you first met your lovely Isabel.
Vane (visibly uncomfortable): London.
Alexandra: I believe Lady B is pressing for a few more details.
Isabel: We met in a dressmaker’s shop.
Vane: From her ladyship’s expression, you might as well have confessed that we met in a brothel.
Isabel: Rubbish! Lady B is an excellent judge of character. (turning to address Lady B) You see, there was an unfortunate incident with a pickpocket—
Vane (sighs): She also has sharp ears, love. I’m certain she has heard a few wild tales about the Lords of Vice.
Isabel (dismisses his words with a careless wave): Malicious gossip.
Alexandra: No, actually, most of it is true. (ignores Vane’s gesture to remain silent)
Isabel: Regardless, it was at Lady Netherley’s insistence that my sister, Delia and I were in the shop on that particular day. It all began with a letter that I had received from the elderly marchioness. We had called on Lady Netherley several times during her stay at her cousin’s house in Cotersage and she seemed to enjoy our afternoons together. Needless to say, I was thrilled when she encouraged my sister and I to come toLondon.
Alexandra: You were desperate, Isabel.
Isabel: Obviously. It was a difficult time for our family.
Vane: Just one more thing my mother failed to mention upon her return toLondon.
<Squawk! Any means necessary! Squawk!> Albert circles overhead, showing off his plumage to the new guests, to now avail. Vane and Isabel can’t take their eyes off each other.
Isabel: And who in this room would blame her? You were being rather difficult about this matchmaking business.
Vane: Difficult? Isabel, my mother was conspiring with everyone from my former mistress to you! I had every right to feel unsettled by her latest mischief! (Vane glares at Alexandra)
(Alexandra shrugs)
Isabel: Anything that sweet woman did, she did out of love for her only surviving son. You are remarkably blessed to have a mother who frets and thinks only of your happiness.
Lady B (nodding somberly): This is quite true.
Vane: You failed to mention to Lady B that my mother told you that your sister Delia was the perfect lady for me.
Isabel (frowning): Well, it’s true that Delia had a role in Lady Netherley’s grand scheme.
Vane: Do not allow my mother’s guileless expression to fool you, Lady B. Lady Netherley is a cunning opponent.
Lady B: Ha! Woe to the man who underestimates a lady. Or a mother doing what she thinks best for her young. Even if they are all grown up (with wonderful limbs, I daresay)
Gaelen: Sooo, was it love at first sight?
Vane and Isabel: No.
Alexandra: Yes. They were just too stubborn to realize it.
Isabel: A bold statement, considering the man was fondling his mistress behind the closed curtains at the back of the shop.
Vane (a pained expression on his face): I was trying to get rid of her!
Isabel: She was giggling, and I believe you growled several times.
Vane: Christ! (silently appealing to Alexandra for assistance) I was suffering from indigestion.
Alexandra: No, he was just being a Lord of Vice. (she leans over and pinches him on the arm)
Vane (mumbled curse): What the devil was that for?
Alexandra: For lying. Isabel is correct. You were fondling Miss Corsar and contemplating much worse.
Vane: Enough about Miss Corsar! I never gave the silly woman another thought after meeting Isabel.
Alexandra: I know. Like I said—It was love at first sight!
Gaelen: Perhaps we should pause and contemplate this…
Gaelen: Alexandra, I cannot wait to read this book. This series has been flying by and earning rave reviews. Now, most people don’t know this, but you were the first friend I ever made in the romance world back in the day, when we were both unpublished and gazing at all those “goddesses” (the published authors at the Georgia Romance Writers conference) and going, “Wowwww, do you think that could ever be us??” And generally laughing at what seemed like a pie-in-the-sky goal back then, but hey, ya work hard enough and throw in a little luck, and have good friends to help you keep your sanity along the way, and you never know what you can accomplish, right??
So, because I’ve known Mz. Hawkins for QUITE some time, I know a thing or two about her that doesn’t show up in her bio. Such as: Alexandra Hawkins is a woman of many talents, most of them in a creative direction. For example, she is a FABULOUS cook. Not that you’ll ever hear her brag. But Oh. My. God. I have seen birthday cakes she has made for her kids over the years that look like they should be on the Food Channel. She is also a talented artist/painter, with a green thumb, who was a serious trained dancer in high-school, and is one of the most disciplined writers in the field. Even better, she is one of those No Excuses people who never whined about not having the time to write, boo hoo hoo, but stayed up til 3 in the bloody morning after putting her kids to bed when they were younger in order to MAKE the time to write. For crying out loud, woman, is there anything you can’t do?? LOL
Alexandra: Oh stop—You’re going to have me blushing like one of my heroines! I’ll admit that I have a strong creative drive and have a tendency to hold nothing back when I take on a project. LOL, and those cakes were incredible!
How long has it been since that first GRW conference? Eighteen years? Back then, the notion of becoming a published author did seem like pie-in-the-sky. I had just moved from Illinois to Georgia with my husband and eighteen-month-old daughter and the conference was another sign that I was committed to writing a romance novel. How lucky that I had a future NYT’s bestselling author practically living across the street from me!
Oh, and for the record, I might have been disciplined, but I was moving at a turtle’s pace. Gael wrote her first manuscript and was sending out query letters long before I finished mine. When she sold her first book, her phenomenal success gave me hope that I might become a published author one day. I’d break out into a rendition of Bette Midler’s “Wind Beneath my Wings” but that song always makes me cry. You know I love you!
Gaelen: Awww! Well, I could rave on about how much I love this gal (and her books!) but what else should our Ballroomies know about you?
Alexandra: I live in northern Georgia with my husband and three teenagers. Hmm . . . One of my goals is to master Photoshop. I like to create my own promo materials so when I’m not working on a manuscript, I’m playing with art software. Historicals are my first love, but I could see myself writing a paranormal or fantasy. World building sounds like my kind of fun.
Gaelen: No wonder you’re so good at it! I can totally see you doing that, btw. And how long have you been writing, my dear?
Alexandra: Since I was a child. I’ve always loved creating short stories and poems. It wasn’t until I was in my twenties that I considered writing a novel.
Gaelen: When did you first discover romance novels?
Alexandra: My senior year in high school. A friend brought her sister’s romances novels to school and I was hooked. Traditional Regencies were my favorite.
Gaelen: You really have a knack for tapping into the classic Regency vibe that is getting rarer these days. You’ve always been accurate about the language and the clothing, in particular, and I always notice, reading you, that your other creative outlets must get channeled into your writing, like the very specific, artist-eye details with which you nuance your descriptions. It’s very cool. So, what inspired you to create the Lords of Vice?
Alexandra: The idea for the series originated from the seven deadly sins. While I was working on the proposal, I switched from sins to vices, but kept the number seven. I’m having a blast writing stories for my Regency bad boys!
Gaelen: And it shows!! So, what’s next for you?
Alexandra: Saint’s book is scheduled to be released this summer.
Gaelen: Awesome! Everybody, I have super news…Alexandra is going to be giving away three autographed copies of her Lord of Vice books. Yaaaayyy!! So, leave a comment and you’ll be entered into the computer-randomizer drawing.
In the meanwhile, I just wanted to say that along with your bad boys (which I know we are always happy to discuss at length. cough cough, pun intended – woot!) I love the matchmaking angle in this book. Matchmaking is alive and well these days, not so much from meddling mammas, but matchmaker websites! (OK, fess up, has anyone here ever tried one of those? Details, people. What did you think?)
If not, have you ever played matchmaker, or benefited from an introduction by someone else who was matchmaking for you? (Whether you liked it or not! LOL.) The Ballroom loves “deliciously juicy gossip” so come on, spill, spill, your matchmaking stories!!

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Jan 23, 2012
2:29 am
Greetings Ladies and Gentleman!
Alexandra, welcome to the Ballroom and thank you for bringing Vane and Isabel as well as Lady Netherley. After listening to the delightful banter between the pair and seeing that ‘WOW’ video, I am very excited about this book. I read AFTER DARK WITH A SCOUNDREL and adored it! So now SUNRISE WITH A NOTORIOUS LORD has been added to my TBR list, for sure!
Matchmaking? My freshman yr in college, a friend of mine needed a date for her boyfriend’s roommate for the Fall Dance. My roommate volunteered to be his date but when he met me, he liked me better – they still went to the dance and all it’s activities but it was me he started dating. ; )
Thanks for the giveaway and I’m hoping luck is on my side.
Jan 23, 2012
12:12 pm
Amy, you dawg, you stole him. muahahaha. hee hee just kidding. Cute story!
Jan 23, 2012
1:38 pm
LOL!! Hadn’t intended to but yes, I did!! Didn’t last long … he was 4 years older and I wanted to play way too much. ; )
Jan 23, 2012
6:43 pm
Thanks, Amy! I’m glad you enjoyed ADWAS.
Jan 23, 2012
2:54 am
Welcome to the Ballroom, Mz. Hawkins. We’ll try to not cause too much trouble while you and your friends visit. Well, I won’t anyway. It’s rather late, after all.
I’ve only read AFTER DARK WITH A SCOUNDREL, and it appears I might have to bite the bullet and read the others, since SUNRISE has already arrived. I don’t like not knowing the details of everyone’s stories!
As to the questions of matchmaking, I’ve become an expert at accidental relationships. In the past few years, I’ve managed to help a few of my friends (some more than once) meet someone they’ve dated. Twice it was because I hired people (oh, the joys of management…) and they started dating other employees within a few weeks.
To the other question, the idea of internet dating, I tried it, once, my freshman year of college, and managed to land a few dates with an older (gasp!) woman. Okay, she was twenty-two to my nineteen, but still. All was going well, until I found out she was married! Apparently it was all approved by her husband, but… it turned me off to dating for a long, long time. I’ve had friends and family have good experiences with online dating sites, so I know they aren’t always bad, but for me, I’ll just stick to the bookstore, or, if I’m feeling adventurous, the local bars, though they tend to be filled with women that make me feel much too old.
Jan 23, 2012
9:03 am
David,
That was unfair of that woman to take advantage of you that way – we would think the same of any man doing the same thing to an innocent girl – but I hope you’ll realize that there are many more good experiences out there for every bad. Besides, you tell a group of women that you’re a romance novel reading six foot tall Texan and they are going to assume that you must be the 21st Century’s answer to Casanova. Surely, you’ve learned all the tricks to get a woman to fall in love with you – you’ve had the best teachers. Bravo to you for being man enough to admit you read romance. [throwing you a kiss]
Jan 23, 2012
12:16 pm
Hi David!
Yay on the successful matches you’ve helped make for others, and Ewwww on the creepy woman going internet dating with her creepy husband’s approval while married. Blech. What is wrong with people???
Anyway, if I were single, I have no idea what i would do. I would think a bookstore is a capital place to meet a quality person, though. Hmm, I think I feel a story idea coming on…!!!
Gaelen
Jan 23, 2012
1:44 pm
Good heavens, David. That would have turned me off dating for a while too.
I’m re-reading THE THREE MUSKETEERS now. D’Artagnan (20) falls in love with Constance (23) while she’s married. But since scandalous liaisons are the whole basis for that hilarious novel, it’s a whole other kettle of fish I suppose!
Jan 23, 2012
6:41 pm
Sorry to hear about your bad experience, David. Internet dating seems pretty risky since most people aren’t straightforward when it comes to their online identities. At least, in a local bar, you can read a person’s body language.
Jan 23, 2012
8:49 am
I’m always so excited when new people come to the ballroom, not only because I get to meet them (*curtsies hello*) but also because it means MORE BOOKS for my TBR List (which, thanks in part to the ballroom, is never-ending).
I’ve been set up on a few blind dates here and there, but the most hilarious attempt was by my sister-in-law’s mother. My sister-in-law and her family are Indian and, in India, it’s usually a cultural norm that parents will matchmake for their children. My sister-in-law, however, is very independent and American, so she met, dated and married my brother like anyone else. Her mother was a bit disappointed about not being able to play matchmaker, so she decided she was going to find me a husband! Needless to say, it did not work (I’m still single), but we’ve gotten quite a few laughs over the men she thinks I should be with!
Jan 23, 2012
12:18 pm
Hi Meredith! That is so cute. I think the traditional Indian ways are pretty neat. They have like a 2% divorce rate, or something super low like that!
I think the Regency folks were on to something. You can love just about anybody if you make up your mind to, and they say at the end of the day, love is not “feelings” and storming passions, but a decision.
Food for thought! Oh, it’s too early for this pondering. LOL. Somebody shut me up…
Jan 23, 2012
6:32 pm
Hi Meredith,
Great story! So is the mother still trying to find a husband for you?
Jan 23, 2012
9:51 pm
Hi Alexandra! My sister-in-law’s mother moved to Switzerland last year for work, so nothing’s really happened since then. But I’m sure she’s still plotting and scheming and just waiting until she comes back to the States.
Jan 23, 2012
9:12 am
Welcome to all our guests. Gaelen “hubba hubba” is an understatement. My friends set me up a couple of times from an on-line dating service. Let’s just say the guys were not suitable. Poor legs by far. However, the guys I seriously have dated and broken up with, have married the next girl they date. It’s like they find love and I get to remain single.
I do have an eligible son, turned 30 yesterday. Tall, good looking, smart, so if there are any available women let me know.
Jan 23, 2012
12:21 pm
Lady Susan, you crack me up – the guys had poor legs. Hahahaha. That was funny. Well, maybe you were such a hard act to follow that they just gave up and married “whoever,” as if to say, what does it matter anymore?? hey it’s just a theory. *g*
So, this son of yours. Lady B wants to see his legs…
Jan 23, 2012
4:57 pm
Lady B,
My son has politely declined to take a photo of his legs. However he is 6’4″ tall, bicycles, avid rock climber, part time community theater actor, and plays chess.
I do have photo’s of him as a child, would that work?
Jan 23, 2012
5:58 pm
Oh, we don’t need to humiliate the poor guy, lol. He sounds delightful & most multifaceted! I wish I had one more sister to present, but they’re all taken now. I’m sure he must have to fight them off.
Jan 23, 2012
6:29 pm
Hi Lady Susan,
Now that Vane is settled, Lady Netherley is willing to devote herself to a new project.
Jan 23, 2012
10:25 am
I’m so excited to read the new novel! Alexandra, I’ve read quite a few of your books and I always enjoy them. I do love a “good” bad boy.
I haven’t tried any dating websites and I would never allow my friends to set me up with dates. I just never trusted anyone not to trap me into three hours of listening to their boring cousin talk about his coin collection or his obsessive quest to find the perfect wax for his sports car. I’m good.
My husband and I did met, sort of, through a family member of his, though. I was hired to waitress at this restaurant and my husband was a cook there. His brother’s wife’s brother was the manager. (Got that?) Anyway, now Kev always takes credit for match-making, saying that if it weren’t for him, we would never have met.
Jan 23, 2012
12:24 pm
OMG this nearly made me snort coffee out of my nose. Hilarious. Coin collection–!! Oy. You are so funny.
The other part..first off, a big shout out from a fellow former waitress. Restaurant staffs really are like their own little soap opera, as I recall. Yours sounds like it could be the cast of an Oscar Wilde play perhaps? LOL. The importance of being bartender…
Jan 23, 2012
1:47 pm
You think coin collection conversation was bad, Olivia? Try foot corns. No — corns surgery. Yes, I once went on a set-up date with a man who talked about his corns surgery nearly the entire time. After that I said never again.
Jan 23, 2012
5:06 pm
Ewwww! Katharine, I hope it wasn’t a dinner date!!
Jan 23, 2012
6:00 pm
My mom in her dating days after divorce from my dad went out on a sort of set-up with a guy who turned out to have an eyebrow fetish. ??? He couldn’t stop talking about her eyebrows and everyone else’s. I never heard of such a thing. I was so horrified by my mom dating crazies that I don’t think I asked for a while about her other fixups. But that one went to one date only. Duh.
Shudder.
Jan 23, 2012
6:21 pm
Olivia–Your husband cooks? LOL, definitely a keeper!
Jan 23, 2012
11:26 am
Hi Alexandra!
How lovely to have you here at the Ballroom! Your Lord of Vice books sound wonderful, and I will definitely have to check out Sunrise with a Notorious Lord.
I love matchmaking, meddling mamas in romances-they are always such fun!
Some of my favorites would have to be JQ’s Violet Bridgerton, Lady Brandon in Maya Rodale’s A Groom of One’s Own, and Alicia Westmoreland in Judith McNaught’s Until You and Whitney, My Love
I have never tried an online dating website, and never been fixed up. But knowing my luck, if that ever happens, I’ll be one of those who sneaks into the bathroom to frantically call one of my friends to call me back in 10 minutes with a faux emergency so I can get away, lol.
Jan 23, 2012
12:26 pm
Hee hee hee, I love the faux emergency idea!
One of my favorite movie scenes ever was from Bye Bye Love (romantic comedy from the 90′s) where Janine Garofalo (who was funny back then) goes on a blind date with a guy whose car is a Student Driver instructor’s car.
Did anyone ever see that movie? Such a funny/tearjerker.
Gaelen
Jan 23, 2012
3:17 pm
Bye Bye Love sounds like my kind of movie. I love Janeane Garofalo. Did you see The Truth About Cats and Dogs? [off to Netflix]
Jan 23, 2012
6:01 pm
Yes, that one was cute, too. She used to be so funny! Why did she have to turn into a crazy person??
Jan 23, 2012
6:14 pm
I loved The Truth About Cats and Dogs. Bye Bye Love sounds familiar. Did it star Paul Reiser?
Jan 23, 2012
6:05 pm
I need to dig up my Judith McNaught collection. It’s been ages since I’ve reread one of her books.
Jan 23, 2012
11:46 am
I try very,very hard NOT to matchmake, but it is so tempting. I see people whom I think would suit one another dating others and it kind of frustrates me….lol.
Jan 23, 2012
11:47 am
Also, after many many many years of mariage, if i were single again and wanted to be in a relationship, at this stage in my life, I would consider an arranged marriage …just to make things easier….hahahaha.
Jan 23, 2012
12:27 pm
Ah, Rebekah, you want to rewrite the plot for them! I get that all the time with people!!! lol.
Jan 24, 2012
2:46 am
I do ! It is so aggravating to me when i see two perfectly lovely people who would have a good life togethor, miss one another by mere inches, so to speak.
I’ve got a friend right now whom I would love to matchmake for..but alas and alack, it is not to be. He is a NICE man, really. I was speaking to a mutal friend, and of course we’re both old married ladies , and we both agreed that if we were single, we would probably have to go duke it out over the man..lol.
His ex-wife is just now grasping how much she has lost…it is quite sad.
I’d like to rewrite that one, for darn sure.
Jan 24, 2012
10:00 am
I’m single!
Jan 23, 2012
2:02 pm
Hi everyone
I’ve never tried online dating, never matchmake and would avoid like the plague anyone trying to matchmake me.
I haven’t read any of Alexandra’s books yet but I’ve been hearing some great things about this one and I plan to check it out soon.
Jan 23, 2012
5:31 pm
I had a college roommate who set me up with her boyfriend’s older brother. The date was more or less over when he whipped out his snake. Lol, and that’s not a euphemism –he had a boa constrictor that was his pride and joy.
Jan 23, 2012
6:34 pm
A definite no-no, can’t abide snakes. I know they’re not really cold and slimey…but I just can’t stand them.
Jan 23, 2012
6:55 pm
The guy insisted that I pet his snake. LOL, I know that sounds bad! I eventually gave in and touched it. The snake liked my heat and before I knew it the creature had wrapped itself around my arm. It then moved up my arm and under my shirt. I didn’t scream, but I wanted to as the guy retrieved his frisky pet.
Jan 24, 2012
2:07 pm
Alexandra, I don’t think he could’ve gotten me to even touch that snake but if it had crawled onto me and wrapped itself around my arm, I think I would have screamed bloody murder even before he retrieved it! You’re a braver gal than I! : )
Jan 23, 2012
6:01 pm
LOL Beebs
Jan 23, 2012
2:03 pm
Welcome to the Ballroom, Alexandra! I’m so excited to read SUNRISE. Vane and Isabel sound perfectly perfect. The cover is gorgeous too! Do you remember, months ago I asked you for a copy of the cover to use in a presentation I did about the romance industry? The crowd **loved** it.
Gael, happily, my husband and I have been successful matchmakers twice! On the second occasion, we were in France and my husband had accidentally double-booked us with his friend Gary in Paris and his mother’s family in the south. Familial duty called and we postponed our time with Gary for a few days.
Now, Gary had already been in France for the year, and since he was about to leave for the States he had said all his good-byes and sent all his stuff home. He had nothing to do but wander around Paris until we returned in two days. It so happens that on his wanderings he bumped into an acquaintance he hadn’t seen in years, when he and she were both dating others. Free to pursue their interest now, they did. And I mean they *really* did. When we returned to Paris we found a friend who hadn’t slept in nearly 72 hours. We’d planned a trip to the country house with Gary for a few days, so of course I invited his lady along. There, tucked away between apple orchards and fields of lavender, we waited on the new lovers like hosts at the finest B&B, feeding them and allowing them all the time they needed alone. It was SO FUN! And it cemented the deal. Their HEA was assured! Gary and his lady are still together today, more than a decade later, with a lovely little lady of their own now too.
))
Jan 23, 2012
5:12 pm
Hi Katharine–
I’m glad the cover was a hit. Have you seen the upcoming one for Saint’s book? ::sighs:: It’ll be a nice addition to the series.
Jan 23, 2012
5:14 pm
Well, darn, it looks like the image didn’t post.
Jan 23, 2012
6:02 pm
What a wonderful story, Katharine!
Jan 23, 2012
2:06 pm
The closest I’ve come to matchmaking is introducing people to others who’ll become their best friends! It’s not too hard when you hang around awesome people.
I don’t think a romantic relationship ever came out of them, though…
Jan 23, 2012
6:46 pm
Close enough. Good friends are important, too!
Jan 23, 2012
3:14 pm
So glad to see you in The Ballroom, Alexandra. Loved reading about Vane and Isabel. I also loved hearing the history of your friendship with Gaelen. One of the best things about being a romance writer is meeting so many smart, talented, amusing, supportive, AWESOME women. Romance writers rock.
And so do romance readers! I love reading the comments in The Ballroom as much as the posts. I don’t think I’ve ever consciously tried to matchmake. I can think of two couples I introduced to each other, but they took it to the next step all by themselves, without any input from me.
Jan 23, 2012
5:58 pm
Hi Miranda,
I ::heart:: romance writers. I agree, it’s an amazingly talented and supportive community.
Jan 23, 2012
3:28 pm
Thanks for making me feel so welcome! Clearly, Lady Netherley’s services are not needed in this room.
I have to give McDonald’s credit for my introduction to my husband. When I was nineteen, I was attending college and working at the restaurant as an assistant manager. The future Mr. Hawkins strolled in looking for a job. He was so cute! Needless to say, all of the female employees were thrilled when the manager hired him on the spot. It took Mr. Hottie almost six months to work up the nerve to ask me out. I declined albeit regretfully. I told him that I couldn’t date fellow employees so he did something absurdly romantic–He quit the next day. Our first date took place on Valentine’s Day.
Jan 23, 2012
4:22 pm
That is so sweet! Glad you came to see us today, Alexandra!

G.
Jan 23, 2012
5:38 pm
Slow start today. Cam was sick over the weekend with a stomach bug, and the fun continues. Now Cassie is complaining that her stomach hurts.
Jan 23, 2012
4:54 pm
How romantic. Did he find another job?
Jan 23, 2012
5:18 pm
The same week. He was in college, too, so part-time jobs were easy to find. Still, I was touched that he’d give up his job so he could date me. In May, we’re celebrating our 24th anniversary.
Jan 24, 2012
2:11 pm
Alexandra, it seems we have more than the book to congratulate you on … nearly a quarter of a century with the same man, it must be love! : )
Jan 23, 2012
4:20 pm
This was a fantastic intertview all round.. I have not had the pleasure yet of reading your books Alexandra, but I check and my library has all three of these books and I will be requesting them for sure…
Your video was so beautifully done and if it doesen’t entice one to read your books, then I don’t know what would..
Thank you ladies, and gentleman for a great time..
Jan 23, 2012
5:21 pm
Hi Kathleen,
I’m really happy with how the trailer turned out, too. The credit goes to Book Candy Studios.
Jan 23, 2012
6:04 pm
Hi Kathleen! Glad you liked the intvu. I second the big love for Book Candy Studios. They did my Inferno vids too.
Jan 23, 2012
6:55 pm
Welcome to the Ballroom, Alexandra! And Isabel, Vane and Lady Netherley. So much fun to have you here!
I’ve been set up on two blind dates, both of which were silly and that is the extent of my matchmaking stories!
Now scrolling up to read through all the comments!!!
Jan 23, 2012
6:57 pm
Hi Sabrina,
It’s a pleasure to “meet” you!
Jan 23, 2012
7:38 pm
I love matchmaker stories, they’re always fun. My good friend decided she wanted me to meet a man she knew and we got together for dinner, she, the man, me and another lady friend. I had absolutely nothing in common with the man (who was a few years older) and I was totally uninterested. A good thing, because right after that they started dating and they’re still together.
Jan 23, 2012
9:04 pm
Can’t wait to read Alexandra’s newest.
But as for personal experience in matchmaking, nope. It wouldn’t occur to me to fix someone up. And I’ve been married longer than online matching sites have been around. Ah, but reading about it…that’s fun.
Jan 23, 2012
9:36 pm
i admit i did try an online service once, but not much of anything came of it & quickly lost interest in trying it after the short intro period (didn’t seem any better than going out & trying you luck). was set up on a blind date in high school, went out a couple times but there was no “clicking” at all, that was the only time i allowed a friend to play matchmaker and have no interest in them trying ever again
Jan 24, 2012
12:40 pm
Well, you gave it a try, so that was adventurous of you!

Gaelen
Jan 24, 2012
12:46 am
I played matchmaker once when I was newly married almost 20 years ago. The couple eloped a few months after I introduced them and they’ve been married almost as long as I have!
Jan 24, 2012
12:36 pm
Go, Cupid!!! Well done Miss Molly! *g*
Jan 24, 2012
12:50 am
I enjoyed reading your post. It was very fun to read.
Jan 24, 2012
12:37 pm
Glad you liked it!
We had fun creating it!
Jan 24, 2012
3:55 am
Have tried to play matchmaker with no results, which in the long run is probably a good thing! But love to hear of romantic get togethers by others. Most fun!
Jan 24, 2012
5:02 am
Gaelen I’ve been a huge fan of yours for a while, your books have helped me cope and get through some stressful times thank you!
Alexandra – I just started reading the first book in your Lords of Vice series and I am totally hooked! I can’t wait to get to the other books!
Jan 24, 2012
12:38 pm
Dear Adria, thanks so much. I’m touched to hear that! That’s pretty much why I wanted to become a writer…because meaningful stories have helped me get thru tough times in my life, and to be able to turn around do that for others seemed like such a privilege. Thanks. Pretty, name, btw!
Gaelen
Jan 24, 2012
7:27 am
This looks like a great book…. I am looking forward to reading it! TY for the opportunity to win a copy.
Jan 24, 2012
9:43 am
Hello ladies!
Lords of Vice hmm? I’ve always been drawn to concepts revolved around the seven deadly sins… Just so delicious to think about! I love the extended interview with Alexandra, thank you for another excellent guest author!
Jan 24, 2012
12:42 pm
Ok, everyone, I let the comments roll along overnight to allow international guests to participate. I’m going to close the contest now and go figure out how to use the computer randomizer thingy on this blog. (wish me luck). And I wish you luck! If you won, Alexandra will be in touch with you to get your address to send your your prize.
Thank you all for participating, and many thanks to Alexandra Hawkins for celebrating her new release with us.
xo,
Gaelen
Jan 24, 2012
5:26 pm
Thank you for making my first visit to The Ballroom such a memorable and fun event. I’ve had a wonderful time chatting with everyone! ~Alexandra