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Saturday Salon: The Real Life Lady Bs
Considering all we authoresses are products of the 21st century, certain things about early 19th century life seem a little… well, odd to us. Disregarding the lack of toothpaste, tampons and the right to vote, there are many subtle differences. One of the odder things, at least in my estimation, is the notion of a Patroness, in and of itself.
Nowadays, yes of course there are patrons of the arts. Lovely, usually rich people who donate time and money to organizations for the curation of old work and the development of new. But in the 19th century and before, artists, authors, musicians, didn’t fill out a bunch of paperwork for a grant to practice their craft — instead, they relied on the far less formalized kindness of socialites who took a liking to them and their work.
Often times, the artists would live in residence at the patron/patroness’s estate. (FYI, we do have rooms at Lady B’s for when we visit from the current century, each designed to fit our individual taste. Mine has a large blue police call box in it, which disappears randomly at times, but I digress.) There have been women like Lady B throughout history. Hester Thrale, a gently-born lady who married a moneyed brewer (and then later an Italian music master, because awesome), was one such a patron and writer herself, who was a close friend of Dr. Samuel Johnson – he had his own room at her house Streatham Park, where he often worked. And Germaine de Staël was an author who hosted one of the most famous salons during the French revolution, defying Napoleon and influencing thought and taste for over 25 years at the Chateau du Coppet in Switzerland. But my absolute favorite real life Lady B is Isabella Stewart Gardner.
Now, she may have been from the later 1800s (*gasp*) and she may have been American (*GASP*) but Mrs. Gardner for me personified the free spirit and intense passion for the arts and culture that I know Lady B has.
A member of the Boston elite during the Gilded Age, Mrs. Gardner was born into wealth and married into wealth. But her life was not without tragedy. Her only son died before the age of three, and when that happened, she and her husband took to travelling and collecting for solace. (Note: much like Lady B, she had nephews that she adopted as her heirs.) But Mrs. Gardner likes collecting artists as much as she did their art. Her home in Back Bay was often filled with up and coming painters of the day, like John Singer Sargent and James MacNeill Whistler. Not to mention authors like Henry James. She would even take artists with her on trips to Europe, Venice being her favorite place. (Remind me to ask Lady B to take me to Venice.)
Eventually, her collection of art grew so big, she built a museum to house and display it all. The Isabella Stewart Gardner Museum in Boston is a gorgeous three-storied covered garden courtyard structure that has a massive collection of European art, and works from her era from her friends. If you’re in the area, I highly recommend a visit. (also, fun fact: it was the scene of a pretty massive art heist in 1990. Yes, art heist. Those things are real. Therefore, The Thomas Crown Affair could plausibly happen. I don’t know how to parlay this into me meeting Pierce Brosnan but it will happen.)
In any case, if you ever wondered about the provenance of Lady B’s general awesomeness, know this: we didn’t just make it up. It’s written in history.
The Isabella Stewart Gardner Musuem is worth seeking out — but what’s your favorite little known museum?














Jan 12, 2013
10:45 am
I am not sure if this is little known or not, but I have always liked museums. They are what I call a lot of fun, even if most of my family don’t like them. Two of my faves are in Trenton, NJ. They are the Old Barracks Museum & The New Jersey State Museum & Planetarium. I used to be completely awed by the planetarium show and loved the historical & science exhibits there. The Old Barracks is where Washington surprised the Hessians. There also is a lot more going there – here is the address to the website – www. Barracks.org
Talking about George Washington, another favorite place is the Washington Crossing Visitors Center. Located where he actually crossed the Delaware River. When I was in school, our school was small & we had some commencement ceremonies there. I was always so happy that I lived a little over 10 min away from one of the events that shaped America. Every Christmas they “try” to recreate the crossing & more times than I can remember they cancel it. They do practice runs before Christmas Day & those are the ones I have watched. When I took my friends to the Visitors Center tour, the tour guide said the practice runs are more fun to watch.
Jan 12, 2013
5:18 pm
Great choices, Jamie! Los Angeles has a well known planetarium too (as seen in Rebel Without a Cause) but I love it because they have a Tesla coil, and light it up daily!
Jan 12, 2013
11:04 am
Great post, Kate. I adore Mme. De Stael. She’s said to have been one of the most fascinating conversationalists ever and men fell madly in love with her even though she was ugly by most standards.
I also adore the Gardner – I’m a sucker for museums in which the building and layout are as much a part of the experience as the collections themselves. Just to be thoroughly obscure, I’m going to nominate the Fairbanks Museum in St. Johnsbury, Vermont. (http://www.fairbanksmuseum.org/). The main gallery is a throwback to its Victorian origins with an amazing miscellany of objects, often with their original handwritten labels.

Jan 12, 2013
5:20 pm
That place looks marvelous, Miranda! Any place who’s main entry way seems to house multiple bears fits the definition of fascinating.
Jan 13, 2013
12:33 am
Beautiful.
Jan 12, 2013
11:43 am
Great post Kate! I really learned a lot.
I don’t know how obscure it is, but I love the Fricke Collection in NYC. (http://www.frick.org/) All that art and priceless sculptures and masterpieces in a place that used to be a family’s home is amazing and incredible.
I also enjoy the NYC Police Museum (http://www.nycpolicemuseum.org/) though it is unfortunately closed while they deal with damage from Hurricane Sandy.
They had an actual jail cell you could explore, as well as a collection of mug shots.
One of my favorite museums down in DC is the International Spy Museum (http://www.spymuseum.org/) I learned so much and the history of spying and espionage was fascinating. They had exercises and simulations you could do throughout the musem to test your spy skills. I learned very quickly I did NOT have what it takes and definitely can’t bring the covert and stealth, lol.
Jan 12, 2013
11:44 am
Great post Kate! I really learned a lot.
I don’t know how obscure it is, but I love the Fricke Collection in NYC. (frick.org/) All that art and priceless sculptures and masterpieces in a place that used to be a family’s home is amazing and incredible.
I also enjoyed the NYC Police Museum though it is unfortunately closed while they deal with damage from Hurricane Sandy. They had an actual jail cell you could explore, as well as a collection of mug shots.
One of my favorite museums down in DC is the International Spy Museum (spymuseum.org/) I learned so much and the history of spying and espionage was fascinating. They had exercises and simulations you could do throughout the musem to test your spy skills. I learned very quickly I did NOT have what it takes and definitely can’t bring the covert and stealth, lol.
Jan 12, 2013
5:20 pm
Oh, I shall have to hit the international spy museum the next time I’m in DC! Sounds fascinating.
Jan 13, 2013
12:32 am
Ooh, we walked by that but didn’t actually end up going in. It seemed so cool!
Jan 12, 2013
2:25 pm
Wonderful post, Kate. I so admire all the people to took the time to promote artists. I tweeted.
Jan 12, 2013
5:21 pm
Thanks Ella! I’m glad you enjoyed it.
Jan 12, 2013
2:52 pm
I absolutely love the Isabella Stewart Gardiner Museum, and as I am in library school at Simmons (literally spitting distance away), it comes up a lot in class. My favorite aspect of the museum is “The Will” (always discussed in capital letters). Mrs. Gardiner’s Will dictates that no singular aspect of the museum may be altered in any fashion, including display practices, or (dun dun dun), Harvard can overtake the entirety of the museum, collections, and grounds. This simultaneously makes for an astounding depiction of 1900s museum curation, and enormous headaches for the museum staff who need to work in a twenty-first century world. Its truly a fascinating place!
Jan 12, 2013
5:23 pm
And because of the Will, they had to leave blank spaces where the stolen art had been hung. I find the entire place fascinating! Thanks, Catie!
Jan 13, 2013
12:31 am
Isn’t Boston a wonderful town to be a student in? Happy memories!
Jan 12, 2013
4:16 pm
Forget the Library – Is Lady B really taking someone to Venice? If so, I’m a very good travel companion. I can carry baggage, interact with the staff and facilities management, cook, clean and load/use any caliber firearm. Additionally, I’m quite the conversationalist and avid traveler so Lady B will never be bored. And, as a handsome gentleman, she’ll have her very own arm candy to travel with!
While there I could take her to visit the Gallerie dell’Accademia – I’m sure she would find something there to suit her fancy.
Well, I’d better be going and dust off the luggage – Just in case I get an invitation!
Jan 12, 2013
5:24 pm
Mark, I’m sure Lady B would have room if she decided to go to Venice. You would have to become adept at rowing a gondola, however.
Jan 12, 2013
7:11 pm
Wonderfully informative post, Kate. Thank you.
Lady B is an awesome lady and certainly should have her own museum. : )
I live in Virginia which is filled with many awesome museums since we are surrounded by so much history. Although it is well-known, my favorite place to visit is Colonial Williamsburg which is a huge museum made up of lots of smaller ones but there is a museum in Fredericksburg which is an amazing place to visit – The Kenmore Plantation which was within walking distance of Mary Washington College (when I went there, now University). This was the home of George Washington’s sister, Betty Lewis. It was used a hospital during wartime and is purported to be haunted by soldiers. I was in there once with a tour. I asked if the man I saw in the hallway off to the side was a re-enactment actor and the tour guide nearly peed her pants. There is no one in Civil War attire employed there. I still wonder about what I saw. *wink*
If you’re ever around Fredericksburg, I recommend you visit there and the home of Mary Washington (George’s mother) which is nearby.
http://www.kenmore.org/kp_home.html
Jan 13, 2013
3:06 am
Amy –
I’ve been to the Kenmore — it is indeed a lovely and fascinating place. Ranks right up there with Monticello for me.
Jan 13, 2013
12:31 am
I, too, LOVE the Gardner museum! I also have very fond memories of a college date to one of their cello concerts.
Btw, I adore my room at Lady B’s!
Jan 13, 2013
3:06 am
How have you decorated your room, Sabrina? Dissaloute rakes stuffed into the corners?
Jan 13, 2013
11:59 pm
Loved this post, Kate. Those women were amazing and made so much art possible. I would like one of my own, please, thank you.
p.s. Sorry so late to the ball! Crazy busy weekend, ack.